Don't think too much how others see you, nobody judges you for taking longer than others to climb out of Bronze. Though I agree, the typical "get good" comment does not do well to support how to play Paladin in lower ranks. In low rank / casual you may need to play wholly different than what guides and high-profile Paladins tell you.
Regarding PLD:
- in low ranks the value of Cover-Guard is minimal as most teammates don't utilise this well. Keep your Cover usage to a minimum to where it actually matters to keep someone alive rather than consistently searching for opportunities to let someone Elixir.
- play more aggressive and be selfish with mitigation. While Paladin doesn't do the greatest damage, it does a lot of consistent damage and has decent tools to stay in a fight.
- consider using "Sheltron Bombing" for a burst engagement. Pre-pop Sheltron, wait until just before it goes off and dash onto an opponent. it may look something like this:
Holy Sheltron -> wait 3s -> Confiteor -> Intervene -> Shield Bash -> Atonement
.- keep track of enemies who recently used Purify and make them your next Shield Bash target, do a callout + timer macro for added measure
- figure out who in your match is the most worthwhile to tag along for pocketing with Guardian and assisting in what they are doing with Shield Bash stun and Confiteor heals, better if you make a mistake with someone together than going too hard on doing your own thing
Useful macros:
1.) Callout macro
/quickchat "Attacking target" <choice>
/mk circle <choice><wait.1>
/mk attack3 <circle><wait.1>
/mk attack2 <attack3><wait.1>
/mk attack1 <attack2><wait.1>
/mk circle <attack1><wait.8>
/mk circle <circle>
/micon "Attacking target" quickchat
2.) Cover/Guardian Macro
/quickchat "Covering target" <choice>
/pvpac "Guardian" <choice>
/pvpac "Guardian" <choice>
/pvpac "Guardian" <choice>
/pvpac "Guardian" <choice>
/mk bind2 <choice>
/mk bind1 <me><wait.10>
/mk bind2 <bind2>
/mk bind1 <bind1>
/micon "Guardian" pvpaction
Replace "choice" with your preferred targeting method. For Mouseover use "mo", for casting it only on what you currently target use "t".