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    Quote Originally Posted by MsQi View Post
    Based on what? You made a ridiculous claim, I'm just pointing that out.
    You called out her BS hence the "Oh, someone called out my nonsense, better try to gaslight them by saying they're being upset"
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    I'm a bit confused, I took what Neko said as a joke, however if they were serious well... /shrug lol, I'll wear the glam I want

    Quote Originally Posted by MsQi View Post
    Mocking sarcasm is my default mode.
    Love your glam btw and your hairstyle colors
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    Quote Originally Posted by Boblawblah View Post
    You called out her BS hence the "Oh, someone called out my nonsense, better try to gaslight them by saying they're being upset"
    Gaslighting? Seriously? There's no gaslighting, and you're insulting everyone that's ever been genuinely gaslight by misusing the term.
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    Quote Originally Posted by NekoMataMata View Post
    Gaslighting? Seriously? There's no gaslighting, and you're insulting everyone that's ever been genuinely gaslight by misusing the term.
    Yes, gaslighting.

    A: makes antagonistic remark

    B: responds in a very normal way

    A: omg, why are you getting so upset?

    https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/gaslighting

    See the section on 'trivializing'. Gaslighting isn't always just in abusive relationships, although it's very common.
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    Player NekoMataMata's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Boblawblah View Post
    Yes, gaslighting.

    A: makes antagonistic remark

    B: responds in a very normal way

    A: omg, why are you getting so upset?

    https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/gaslighting

    See the section on 'trivializing'. Gaslighting isn't always just in abusive relationships, although it's very common.
    I'm well aware that it's not restricted to abusive relationships, but I also fail to see where my original comment was antagonistic. I already acknowledged that what I said was my opinion but that's as far as it really goes. I personally see the vast majority of glams involving 2bs and/or dalmascan draped tops as lacking creativity. If you think that's antagonistic then we should probably take a look through your own post history because there's definitely going to be a lot of comments on that level.

    Of course, it shouldn't be surprising that you always see anyone you disagree with as antagonistic. Maybe you should learn to look past your bias.
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    X'lota Qi
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    Quote Originally Posted by NekoMataMata View Post
    Gaslighting? Seriously? There's no gaslighting, and you're insulting everyone that's ever been genuinely gaslight by misusing the term.
    You are entitled to your opinion but calling the top a sin is odd considering how basic it is. It fits nicely in any fantasy or pirate related setting. I am not a fan of the bottoms but they are part of the world now. I don't like wearing somebody else's butt, however people have asked for bodysuit/leotard/one piece swimsuit like items and that is one way to make something kinda like that. They are also one of the few black stocking options available, which is the main reason I keep it around. I find it interesting that you still can't create the 2B exploded outfit which was what those who wanted the Nier crossover were looking forward to.

    Also, it is part of Miqo'te culture that they prefer wearing less restrictive clothing. That doesn't mean they have to, but no one can accurately say it ruins immersion when they do.
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