I don't really want to admit how long it takes me to do each quest. It's pretty insane.
I've even had some where I had to give up, use a guide.. And the guide didn't really help. So there's that. lol
I also had some strange urge to print out the map and plaster it all over the walls, something I haven't done since Ultima. I won't though. Because I'm an adult, and that would be difficult to explain to guests.
The thing I'm enjoying the most right now is I'm given the opportunity to try and fail. Where in XIV I'm very used to just going through the motion of a visual novel where it's nearly impossible to fail. They both have their own strengths, so I'm enjoying XI for the solo challenge.