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  1. #41
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    BaconBits's Avatar
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    Arya Diavolos
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    Paladin Lv 98
    Begone specter of the past.
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  2. #42
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    Tera Streletzia
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    Coeurl
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    Dancer Lv 80
    Quote Originally Posted by Aurelius2625 View Post
    How about no? It's not "Shaming" it's "we literally won't clear this if you keep doing these things".

    Dude, grow up. Be an adult. Be a man/woman. If you are PLAYING WRONG in a TEAM GAME and your TEAM needs you to DO BETTER and someone is TELLING YOU HOW, you should do that.

    It's not SHAMING. Public shaming by telling you how to dps/heal/tank? No. Absolutely not. That's not shaming. That's giving advice.

    "Hey moron, do this instead you brainlet" is toxic.... "Hey man, use one tank cooldown per pull, and if the mobs are still alive, use reprisal or arms length when they are up, or your personal cooldown" is NOT SHAMING.

    Have skin that is thicker than wet tissue. There are people who will tell me what I am doing wrong, it's okay. I usually read and ask questions in The Balance discord so I'm usually at the top of my game anyways...but for specific things I will ask or be told about.
    There is a time and place and way to say or do things, and just like this comment, a lot of things aren't the best way to go about it. Being overly and unnecessarily aggressive in this manner is not only going to backfire, but produce nothing good from it. Sure, people could grow thicker skins, but it's painfully clear some need to better understand how to talk to people and read the room, a skill judging by your response you are severely lacking in. Being abrasive doesn't work, unless you're in the military. I don't recall FFXIV being the military.
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  3. #43
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    Renalt El'doran
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    Bard Lv 90
    There should be an ERP mentor crown. Not me though. I'm a sprout.

    LF Mentor

    LFG Quicksand ( Savage )
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  4. #44
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    Inglis Eucus
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    Cuchulainn
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    Reaper Lv 100
    This is why I never use my mentor crown, One bad mentor wreck it for all the other mentors. Now where all toxic wow
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  5. #45
    Player EZGIL's Avatar
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    Jordan Lore
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    Lamia
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    Blacksmith Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by Renalt View Post
    There should be an ERP mentor crown.)
    ....

    what would the icon look like ?

    tbh, I'm afraid to meme it.
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  7. #46
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    Renalt El'doran
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    Quote Originally Posted by EZGIL View Post
    ....

    what would the icon look like ?

    tbh, I'm afraid to meme it.
    A pen. Perhaps 15 of them.
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    When you deal with human beings, never count on logic or consistency.

    Fluid like water. Smooth like silk. Pepperoni like pizza.

  8. #47
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    Jordan Lore
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    Lamia
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    Blacksmith Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by Renalt View Post
    A pen. Perhaps 15 of them.


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