How do you all deal with stalkers?

[Kaurhz]

I would say in the first instance to report, if it happens again, I would suggest considering a name change, and then if it persists report once again which would give more weight to the fact of stalking and would make it easier for action to be taken.

With some fortune, some of the people will get sanctioned accordingly for it, they'll get the 'memo' and they'll back off and probably spread the word that despite their lack of a moral compass, they can still get sanctioned for it.

I would equally say in the future to be cautious of those whom you add, especially in a gaming community. Unfortunately, whilst you can delete people from your friend list, this is not a two-way job - I believe you would still remain on their list which can make it more difficult to get away from it. - Unfortunately, the powers that be somehow don't see why this system is an obvious issue.

[Stormpeaks]

I would say in the first instance to report, if it happens again, I would suggest considering a name change, and then if it persists report once again which would give more weight to the fact of stalking and would make it easier for action to be taken.

With some fortune, some of the people will get sanctioned accordingly for it, they'll get the 'memo' and they'll back off and probably spread the word that despite their lack of a moral compass, they can still get sanctioned for it.

I would equally say in the future to be cautious of those whom you add, especially in a gaming community. Unfortunately, whilst you can delete people from your friend list, this is not a two-way job - I believe you would still remain on their list which can make it more difficult to get away from it. - Unfortunately, the powers that be somehow don't see why this system is an obvious issue.

Name change doesnt work, lodestone link doesnt change, and if they have you in their friend list they will see your new name

[Kaurhz]

Name change doesnt work, lodestone link doesnt change, and if they have you in their friend list they will see your new name

The point is to really take the intent from it, if people go that far then it's very difficult for any GM to ignore, even when they're feeling kinder than usual. Granted, they shouldn't need to in the first place. Because frankly stalking behavior should lead to a 1-way ticket to a banned boulevard, pending review.