When spreding cheer and goodwill on christmas day can get you in trouble

[Deveryn]

This time of year means different things to different people. Not everyone is ready to deal with all that in game, especially on a day where they might have been with family.

[Shibi]

This time of year means different things to different people. Not everyone is ready to deal with all that in game, especially on a day where they might have been with family.

Sometimes we just wish our closest family could still be with us and join us.

After losing my sister to breast cancer, I shifted from the "yay xmas" side to the "damn, this time of year is tough" side.

One can put on a brave face. and be nice to strangers, but by gosh, that grief gets tough at this time of year.

(Still no cause for OP's grump to be a grump though - sometimes this community just sucks)

[RobynDaBank]

Sometimes we just wish our closest family could still be with us and join us.

After losing my sister to breast cancer, I shifted from the "yay xmas" side to the "damn, this time of year is tough" side.

One can put on a brave face. and be nice to strangers, but by gosh, that grief gets tough at this time of year.

(Still no cause for OP's grump to be a grump though - sometimes this community just sucks)

Very sorry for your loss Shibi.

[Deveryn]

Sometimes we just wish our closest family could still be with us and join us.

After losing my sister to breast cancer, I shifted from the "yay xmas" side to the "damn, this time of year is tough" side.

One can put on a brave face. and be nice to strangers, but by gosh, that grief gets tough at this time of year.

(Still no cause for OP's grump to be a grump though - sometimes this community just sucks)

I don't get why the community has to be thrown under the bus. It's just the way people are in general. Everyone handles things differently. In the end, you have the choice in how you respond to things. When the OP talks about even thinking of naming / shaming, they've already lost and sunk to the other person's level, which is why I say it should've been left alone.