Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread! v2

[ExiaRepair]

Server: Midgardsomr
Willing to transfer?: Sure.
Personal Interests: Fashion, photography, absurdly expensive furniture, anime.
Play schedule: 6PM CT is usually when I get on, generally I play after work, weekends are more hit or miss.
What kind of gamer are you: Pretty sweaty. I like to grind and end up being a bit of a perfectionist even if I can't quite execute.
Character Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?: Yeah, prefer female for sure.
Character Race: Catboi
Preferred Race: Catgirl
Main class?: Gunbreaker, I wipe raids.
Dislikes: A lot, but typically people who try to appeal to my interests too much.
Goals for the game: I like to clear content and get better at the game as a whole. If you're down with that and having fun with me let's get along.
Goals for the marriage union: Meeting new people and having a cute friend, not opposed to more if you're really cool.
Etc: e/xia#5943 shoot me a DM on discord, let's talk about cool things and geek out.

[Leifei]

Server: Ultros

Willing to transfer? Probably not. I have a house and would prefer to keep it. If the connection was strong enough, I could reconsider this stance in the future, but not in the short term.

Personal Interests: FFXIV, Basketball, Umbreon, Hiking, Theme Parks, Traveling, Reading, my puppy dog, etc.

Play schedule: It's all over the place and I basically have played at most hours of the day - I don't do mornings. But I do love late nights (I mean LATE nights).

What kind of gamer are you: Whatever kind my schedule allows, I guess. But I've been everything from super casual to chasing world firsts.

Character Gender: Female (Female IRL)

Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? It's not a deal breaker, but I also kind of prefer it.

Character Race: Miqo'te

Preferred Race: Whatever makes you happy (I may judge you for funsies though)

Main class?: WHM

Dislikes: Liars, mean people, flakey people (all I mean is don't make plans if you can't be there!), stubborn people, people who take life too seriously.

Things I enjoy doing in the game: I do it all. I know, that feels like a cop out, but, no, I legit do everything. Want to do maps? Grind fates? Level? PVP? Go to an RP venue? Do EX trials? Do Savage raids? Sure. I've done all of those this year. The one exception is I haven't ever stepped foot in an Ultimate, but if you have a good group of people to do it with? I feel confident I can learn and be a valuable asset there too.

Goals for the marriage union: Baseline, I'd like to make a connection with someone fun to play with. Someone to adventure through Eorzea with. If more comes of it? Why not? Finding the right person who shares my passion is great.

Etc: I'm in my 30s, I'd much prefer someone similar in that regard. I'm a flight attendant, some days I may not have time to play, but I still play quite a bit. I live in the US, I'm not overly attached to my home and moving isn't out of the realm of possibility for the right person. I consider myself pansexual, if that word makes you irrationally mad, we'd probably not get along. I'm an open book for questions and adventure, so try me! Krose13#1178

You seem pretty awesome. I bet you'll find someone on here in no time.

[Lisana13]

You seem pretty awesome. I bet you'll find someone on here in no time.

Eh, I'm just a person. But people have weird expectations.

Example: Today, someone added me (nearly a month after my post) on Discord in the middle of a work day, then got mad because I didn't give them a reply before the evening. And added a veiled shot at this somehow making me flakey. If not replying during a work day makes someone unreliable, most people probably are.

All in all, this isn't the best place to find people.

[Leifei]

Eh, I'm just a person. But people have weird expectations.

Example: Today, someone added me (nearly a month after my post) on Discord in the middle of a work day, then got mad because I didn't give them a reply before the evening. And added a veiled shot at this somehow making me flakey. If not replying during a work day makes someone unreliable, most people probably are.

All in all, this isn't the best place to find people.

Haha, well the good news is that person showed you one of their red flags early on instead of later.

[Rolanberries]

Server: Faerie
Willing to transfer? No
Goals for the marriage union: I just want the glamour! Willing to EB anyone who's fine with this, standard plan is what I plan to go with ^.^/
Discord: miri#5131

[UnrealTai]

Eh, I'm just a person. But people have weird expectations.

Example: Today, someone added me (nearly a month after my post) on Discord in the middle of a work day, then got mad because I didn't give them a reply before the evening. And added a veiled shot at this somehow making me flakey. If not replying during a work day makes someone unreliable, most people probably are.

All in all, this isn't the best place to find people.

Definitely not lol.
I play with my fiance a lot but we met at work.

I've been in small FCs large FCs the works and EVERY relationship I've seen people start in this game, end, in this game. Even the ones that move in together eventually haven't lasted.
I was best friends with the leads in an 500? person FC for awhile, guess what nearly destroyed it after a decade of them playing together? Yea, stupid drama related to things like this entire topic.

The only ones I see fine didn't "start" out their friendship ingame.
Obviously thats not 100% of the time, but over 10+ years of playing? I've not personally seen a single one pan out.
It's nothing but drama honestly.

Lot of it boils down to too much controlling from one person, or the other being overly too damn needy. (The guy you met sounds like both)

For whatever reason most people act way more of either of those in this game then they actually ever would IRL.
The 3rd scenario which isn't too shocking since it's online only is one of the 2 acting like a street walker, lol. (yea guys Im talkin to you too)

[Renalt]

Definitely not lol.
I play with my fiance a lot but we met at work.

I've been in small FCs large FCs the works and EVERY relationship I've seen people start in this game, end, in this game. Even the ones that move in together eventually haven't lasted.
I was best friends with the leads in an 500? person FC for awhile, guess what nearly destroyed it after a decade of them playing together? Yea, stupid drama related to things like this entire topic.

The only ones I see fine didn't "start" out their friendship ingame.
Obviously thats not 100% of the time, but over 10+ years of playing? I've not personally seen a single one pan out.
It's nothing but drama honestly.

Lot of it boils down to too much controlling from one person, or the other being overly too damn needy. (The guy you met sounds like both)

For whatever reason most people act way more of either of those in this game then they actually ever would IRL.
The 3rd scenario which isn't too shocking since it's online only is one of the 2 acting like a street walker, lol. (yea guys Im talkin to you too)

I'm not sure if this thread was even really made for actual dating in mind. I think it was made to just EB with someone, get the stuff, and maybe stay together or not. However if people ARE taking it seriously...I'm going to be with you 100% and assume it's not going to end well if it starts up at all. Just a general reminder for people to be careful with such things online for you have no idea how they are going to act...much like that guy mentioned a few posts above where they get all uppity for the other person not being available 24/7.

[UnrealTai]

I'm not sure if this thread was even really made for actual dating in mind. I think it was made to just EB with someone, get the stuff, and maybe stay together or not. However if people ARE taking it seriously...I'm going to be with you 100% and assume it's not going to end well if it starts up at all. Just a general reminder for people to be careful with such things online for you have no idea how they are going to act...much like that guy mentioned a few posts above where they get all uppity for the other person not being available 24/7.

More or less ya it was originally, at some point looking through pages that flipped, like all the other topics it seems lol

[Daner2234]

The hell it cut off most of my post

[Renalt]

More or less ya it was originally, at some point looking through pages that flipped, like all the other topics it seems lol

Yeah I never took it seriously myself when I posted and figured my post was kinda clear on that with my joking answers. I had 2 respond on discord and they were taking it really seriously.