YPYT is griefing. Tank role is not "puller" role

[Fandele]

I've run into this before, as an occasional Bad Tank (TM). I pull what I'm comfortable with, usually one group, sometimes two. Most people are ok with it, especially since I normally group with friends.
But I do remember one particular instance in Smileton, where three of us queued in duty finder for a fourth, and ended up with a very impatient reaper who repeatedly pulled All The Things. Now, I did my best, but we did end up wiping twice in the span of about 90 seconds, he bailed, and dutyfinder replaced him almost immediately with another dps with whom we went on to finish without further incident.
I've had other people pull before, and I'm fine with it as long as it's not more than I can handle. But it's something that should be discussed beforehand, and the tank and/or healer have made their comfort levels heard.

[Bad_Luck]

I've run into this before, as an occasional Bad Tank (TM). I pull what I'm comfortable with, usually one group, sometimes two. Most people are ok with it, especially since I normally group with friends.
But I do remember one particular instance in Smileton, where three of us queued in duty finder for a fourth, and ended up with a very impatient reaper who repeatedly pulled All The Things. Now, I did my best, but we did end up wiping twice in the span of about 90 seconds, he bailed, and dutyfinder replaced him almost immediately with another dps with whom we went on to finish without further incident.
I've had other people pull before, and I'm fine with it as long as it's not more than I can handle. But it's something that should be discussed beforehand, and the tank and/or healer have made their comfort levels heard.

Bingo, if you're a DPS who takes the role of puller upon yourself without team support, you're wrong and you're the problem. At least the remedy is pretty easy