What's the right thing to do in these dungeon situations?

[Espon]

I've never posted bait on this forum, ever.

I said it was a controversial opinion. I don't mind picking extra stuff that gets accidentally pulled, but I'm not gonna indulge DPS runners that don't care for the rest of the party in the first place and just run ahead on whatever mad pace they're in. To me it's just a matter of principle. I hate being rude myself, but it just find that attitude disrespectful to begin with, and this is one where trying to dialogue about it will cause people to be even more rude about it. Still, I said I always ask once before I do my thing. Either way, I'm not gonna argue over it. We all have our controversial opinions, and I swear I'm not trying to come across as a bitch, and I know unlike my housing opinions, this one is definitely not "great" but it's how I feel.

The thing is, it's not just you and the naughty DPS in the dungeon. There are two other people there as well, and they would probably really like it if you made the run go smoothly. Instead, you rather throw a temper tantrum and refuse to tank until someone dies and waste everyone else's time.

And what if the healer decides to heal that mean ol' DPS that ran in front of you? Are you going to start tanking now or will you let the healer die as well?

Most people that do this are entitled selfish players, that expect Healers to keep them alive and for the Tank to grab everything from them, and you know what? I'm not gonna indulge that kind of attitude.

I mean, who else in this scenario is being an 'entitled selfish player?'