I tend to be pretty laid back, so I don't tend to get upset at stuff. I only ask that players join my groups in good faith, and listen to advice. If we wipe, and it takes a while to get through content, then it's all good, provided everyone is cool. Same for me too, give me advice if I'm messing up and don't act like a pleb if I don't grasp something new right away.
I only have a few negative stories:
My first attempt at Ramuh Extreme (Synced) was more stressful than it needed to be. I prefer to blind content if at all possible and wanted to do it synced, but struggled to find a synced group who would accept a blind player. So I checked a guide for the essentials, joined a group, explained that it was my first extreme trial, and had checked a guide. All good they said.
I kept getting caught in mechanics, so I was asking questions and trying to figure out what was going on. It's hectic and playing WHM there was a lot to keep check on. After 3 wipes the group leader accused me of lying about reading a guide, which put a sour taste in my mouth and asked me to switch to another job or leave. From the chat I believe they had been going for a few hours, so I get that they were tired, but it felt uncalled-for and if a group has been going for some time then it's usually symptomatic of a broader problem. None the less I did, we ran a few more runs and the mechanics were starting to set in, we were doing fairly well. Then during one run I got some lag and seemed to get the boot.
It made me feel quite insecure about running high end content, but decided to form a group the next day. Discounting getting trolled by 3 players who deliberately wiped us, we cleared him synced with no echo in a few runs - it was surprisingly clean too considering there were a few new players learning the mechanics as we went. Then we went and blind ran Shiva Extreme clearing her in 4 runs. Which goes to show, a little patience with people is all that's needed.

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