How does one do the big-boy pulls in Bardam's Mettle as DRK? Halp... I've had not a single successful big first pull.

Edit to mention, I finally understand the grating annoyance of not having your Living Dead have a chance to actually stretch its legs. I got yelled at for using no defensives when I pressed it... you're the one who Benediction-ed me to full at the hourglass buff, WHM...