Ah I didn't know about that limitation with LOTRO's housing. If it were a choice between more non-instanced wards being auto-created when one fills up but limited item placement, vs. instanced housing with FFXIV's current flexible item placement, I'd definitely prefer the latter. Enough wards for everyone who wants one to get a house in the current non-instanced districts would be amazing, but yeah I assume there is some technical limitation that has so far prevented that or they would've done it already. So at this point, if that can't be done, I'd happily take instanced housing. It's better than NO house.
But the fact is that some people just really want to be ABLE to garden, and decorate outdoors. Whether you personally find it fun or not. And you can't do either of those things in an apartment or an FC room (sure you can use the garden plots of your FC but you gotta share those with everyone else and often they are in use by others). Presumably you agree apartments/fc rooms aren't enough for some people since it sounds like you DID keep trying to get a house and eventually got one? It's just kinda...funny when people who already DO have a house tell those venting about not being able to get one that houses aren't that big of a deal/aren't that much better. If you really think that, sell your house so someone who does really want one can get it. XD
It's perfectly reasonable for people to want access to game systems that exist. Some care about it more than others, and it sucks that those who really care are still locked out because of limited availability.
And "one day you might get lucky" doesn't apply anymore because demolition is still deactivated, so once all current plots fill up (probably within the next bidding cycle or two), that's it, no more opportunities for anyone else. Ever. Unless they turn demolition back on, add more wards, or someone randomly decides to get rid of their own house (unlikely).
Can everyone who wants one get a house in that game? Or is it limited like in FFXIV? I wonder how they pull that off...much smaller player base I assume?