I am extremely nice to people, whenever I get asked for help I do it. Ask anyone on wutai, I help everyone to the best of my ability.

I only become rude to players who are rude to me first.

So because my gear only has one meld to it each piece I suck, or because I don't use flare out of the other abilities?

Why would you run up to coincounter and flare when he can smack you with an aoe club swing, why run up to a morbol and take bad breath to the face trying to flare.