All I know is I've been playing this game since the closed beta of 2.0, and the forums have never changed.
Every major patch, every expansion, given a few weeks someone will come along and herald the end.
The game is dying, it's over, FFXIV is finished!
Yet it's grown, and has ever continued to grow.
I honestly don't care how big the game is or isn't. I'm pretty happy with it's current state of affairs, and plan to keep playing.
I imagine the majority of players feel the same way, because it is true people will sooner turn to the forums to complain rather than to give praise. Human nature and all that.
This game has faced far worse before, been at a worse place, and I'm sure many more difficulties lie ahead - but that doesn't mean they have failed us. Because there is no "us".
They've certainly never failed me.
I hope this is the extent of issues this game ever faces - I'll take difficult patch releases, servers going down and delayed updates any day over some of the horrid things other game devs and publishers have (tried to keep) hidden.
If the patch-cycle must be delayed so the people working on the game are entitled a real life, so be it.