Honestly it doesn't bother me going back to collect my Gil. Yes, I didn't win the Lottery. On the plus side, I got my Gil back and there is always a smidgeon of hope for future lotteries. Plus, sometimes it's fun to see what kind of house sprang up on the plot you were trying for. If you are polite and cheerful about it, the new owner might even be willing and happy to give you a tour.