Quote Originally Posted by Nihility View Post
often times a lot of people want to leave but fear the queue cooldown so don't. Being the one that gets the punishment really is the only thing keeping people in line after all
As soon as the person that is so fed up they don't care at all leaves they are given the opening to do so as well
then if the party dwindles enough other people that were fine are now shaky that so many spots need to be filled and leave as well

it's not the most complicated thing really
I get it that's is not complicated, what I don't understand why it seems to be such a regular occurrence, you don't have to just alt f4, you can say that you have to do something and therefore gotta leave, people aren't going to find your IRL and make you disappear for doing so, what baffles is me that people just follow suit after someone leaves and then you sometimes meet half of the people you were doing stuff with on a new group and you just gotta ask yourself "Why didn't you just stuck around the group that was 90% filled with people doing stuff right?"