As I mentioned to you in the other thread, the forums is the place to go to vent your frustrations with the game. That is the core reason why the negativity resonates so strongly with you. When you watch streamers bawling their eyes out playing the MSQ, but witness a smile from ear to ear when they're doing dungeons, trials, and all those "poorly designed" encounters; you see and feel the exact opposite of all that negativity. You see exactly what this dev team aims to achieve.
I come from the Atari age, and have seen how games have evolved from green screen Oregon Trail and Snakebite, to the games we see today, which includes FFXIV. And while FFXIV does not perform to current standards, it is VERY easy for me to take in and appreciate what it does.
What do you suppose it means when an MMO's popularity has grown so vast that sales and marketing of it has to be suspended, despite its blatant setbacks? This is not a rhetorical question, because while one might surmise that where I am going with that might be, "Of course this team is capable of leading the game. XXXXXXX number of subs has to mean something" It is also easy for me to see the launch of 6.0 as a failure to accommodate the growing demand. Neither response tells the whole story with what is going on with FFXIV and its playerbase.
One thing I can say that is concrete is that an unfulfilled demand does not mean they don't address them. It means that particular demand has not been addressed. I use the word demand because that is the form a player's critique takes when they object to the direction the game has gone. Even more so when reluctance, refusal, or inability to meet a player's expectations results in the demand turning to an opinion that feels the current dev team needing to be purged from the game, and existence itself (yes, there are players who actually do feel that way). Those are the entitled players who think the world revolves around them.
Last thing I will say on this manner before I log on for the night is a true question I have for you: Are YOU enjoying FFXIV? When you are logged on, does an air of appreciation fill your lungs when you look at the landscapes, listen to the music, admirer your avatar, get taken in by a quest or the story? Remember, the question is for you. I asked myself the very same questions already.