"You pull, you tank" is a bad mentality

[aveyond-dreams]

That's quite alright, you can refuse to perform your role or "teach me a lesson" and I will promptly leave the duty so as to avoid friction. I do not bother speaking in game usually, because nearly everything someone says can be misinterpreted as hostile. People get mad whenever someone only types "aoe plz" or "its ok to pull more " no matter how nice you word it.

You may get another person that enables the present behavior, but I wash my hands of the inevitable argument that will occur when a single-pull tank causes an issue in a current levelling dungeon or 90 dungeon and the resulting fallout. That won't be my problem, and my conscience remains clean on that.

[ZephyrMenodora]

That's quite alright, you can refuse to perform your role or "teach me a lesson" and I will promptly leave the duty so as to avoid friction. I do not bother speaking in game usually, because nearly everything someone says can be misinterpreted as hostile.

You may get another person that enables the present behavior, but I wash my hands of the inevitable argument that will occur when a single-pull tank causes an issue in a current levelling dungeon or 90 dungeon and the resulting fallout. That won't be my problem, and my conscience remains clean on that.

Nowhere did I say anything about "teaching you a lesson." Your issue is that your definition of "refusing to perform a role" goes into prohibited behavior.

The devs have invited players of all skill levels to enjoy the game. They even recently stated so in the live letter where they anticipate some people won't be great at the game. Most content is designed to be cleared with this in mind - including content post level 50 that you believe they shouldn't be able to enjoy with others at all. As long as someone is putting in honest effort to the level they are capable of, they are performing their role. But for you, it doesn't sound like that's good enough on some occasions.

[Atelier-Bagur]

That's quite alright, you can refuse to perform your role or "teach me a lesson" and I will promptly leave the duty so as to avoid friction. I do not bother speaking in game usually, because nearly everything someone says can be misinterpreted as hostile. People get mad whenever someone only types "aoe plz" or "its ok to pull more " no matter how nice you word it.

You may get another person that enables the present behavior, but I wash my hands of the inevitable argument that will occur when a single-pull tank causes an issue in a current levelling dungeon or 90 dungeon and the resulting fallout. That won't be my problem, and my conscience remains clean on that.

Gosh I would hate to even do runs with your attitude. Granted Im one for wall to wall pulls anyway but it leaves a bad taste in my mouth knowing that there's players out there who just think too much of themselves in group content. With me when I sign up for doing roulettes, I go with whatever the flow the group wants to go apace. I value more on making sure everybody else is having a good time no matter their play style, than what I normally try to do. Call me old-fashioned but I always go with whatever the tank I run with decide to go, if Im a healer or a dps. If they want to go at it with one mob at a time go right ahead, if they want to pull more mobs more power to us. Im not gonna be "that guy" who just silently bails just because the tank or group isnt going at the pace I WANT.

At the end of the day though, you're free to keep on doing you, and I'm sure my tsk tsk's at your impatient behavior will not matter to you in the slightest (nor do I expect you to really). Just yeesh, I just cant help but roll my eyes whenever I read your posts sometimes.