"You pull, you tank" is a bad mentality

[Bjorn-Kobito]

When tanks do this and refuse to tank, I refuse to heal. A tank is NOT needed to do any of the dungeons in this game with normal pulls so if they only are willing to do small pulls I'd rather them just leave or kick me. For capstone dungeons they don't even need to push extra buttons for cooldowns since the healing requirements are a joke.

[SturmChurro]

When tanks do this and refuse to tank, I refuse to heal. A tank is NOT needed to do any of the dungeons in this game with normal pulls so if they only are willing to do small pulls I'd rather them just leave or kick me. For capstone dungeons they don't even need to push extra buttons for cooldowns since the healing requirements are a joke.

You are more likely to be reported, and have action taken against, for doing that, than the tank, as there seems to be a bias towards 'bad' play with many in this community. I'd say people get away with a lot of actual griefing, when it's hidden under this pretense. Unfortunate.

[Bjorn-Kobito]

You are more likely to be reported, and have action taken against, for doing that, than the tank, as there seems to be a bias towards 'bad' play, with many in this community. I'd say people get away with a lot of actual griefing, when it's hidden under this pretense. Unfortunate.

Just soft grief back and stay silent in the chat. That's what I do. I refuse to play with people who are bad even if it costs me more time. It is very hard for GMs to get you if you stay cool in the chat. The last expert roulette I had where a tank refused to pull off of me I told them the "select" key was broken on my controller and I accidentally closed the pop-up for the return prompt so I couldn't respawn and revive after dying.

"Hey healer, you can tank if you want to pull"
*No response*
"Hey, are you really just going to AFK?"
-- "Sorry! My controller's select key doesn't work and I accidentally closed the return prompt to revive.... you guys will have to kick me. I don't have a mouse or anything to click it :/"