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  1. #91
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    Erin Grayfox
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  2. #92
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    Readaeyn Alkanet
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vav2021 View Post
    thank you for the article... but I wish I didn't know about it now. It seems so vague in some parts, that I feel like i'm back to walking on eggshells again. So if I disagree with someone, i'm better off at pretending they said nothing to begin with?
    And that is the debate, isn't it?
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  3. #93
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    Ellia Lombardia
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    I'm not silent. I say hi and gg in dungeons!
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  4. #94
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    Celenir Istarkh
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    Atomos
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    Also, don't forget that it's just not practical to use /say when there are a lot of people around all trying to say something to their friends. Your dialog quickly gets drown out by other dialog and nobody knows who's talking to whom anymore.
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    Last edited by Zfz; 01-01-2022 at 11:50 AM. Reason: grammar
    “There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.”
    ― Ernest Hemingway

  5. #95
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    Luna Star
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    Gilgamesh
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    Most are super quiet. Came from SWTOR which was super chatty to here and was shocked by the silence. People will even come up to you... but say nothing.
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    Wise men speak because the have something to say, fools because they have to say something. - Plato - He saw the ff forums apparently.

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    Mizuru Goh
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    Balmung
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    Quote Originally Posted by Serenitey View Post
    Most are super quiet. Came from SWTOR which was super chatty to here and was shocked by the silence. People will even come up to you... but say nothing.
    SE made FFXIV like a solo player experience, you don't need people or engage with them, except if you are going to raid/savage.

    Also RP's are a big red flag here, I can't stand people who randomly send tells saying " Hey cute char :3 "
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  7. #97
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    Vavil Veneth
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    Quote Originally Posted by Serenitey View Post
    People will even come up to you... but say nothing.
    Horror movie fuel there.
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  8. #98
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    Mira Clearweaver
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    Jenova
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    Personally I’d default to silence unless I have a good inkling that whoever I’m partied with are talkative enough to be willing to do some chatters.

    Otherwise, nobody is obligated to engage in conversation.

    Quote Originally Posted by AnnRam View Post
    Also RP's are a big red flag here, I can't stand people who randomly send tells saying " Hey cute char :3 "
    How does “RP” has anything to do with another player expressing their compliment about another’s character?
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  9. #99
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    Saturn Vitrell
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    Famfrit
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    Marauder Lv 18
    At least on my main's server, pretty sure it's language barrier issues. Lotta folks on the EU servers don't type good English, but I find that isn't the biggest problem, it's their English reading level that is, and can cause misunderstandings when faced with a fluent speaker. Thus I try not to talk at length with many of them for that reason.
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    Suri Obinata
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    Cuchulainn
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    White Mage Lv 84
    Because I'm a quiet person anyway? Because I don't see a point in small talk with people I'm not likely to ever see again? Because I've been fighting that horrible beast known as depression? Because I find it difficult to interact with others on a good day? Pick your poison lol
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