Priorities are why people are frustrated that there are long queues and frequent disconnects.
It means they have to either not play or change their priorities. Some people of which are unable to do the latter and are therefore unable to play. And therefore understandably upset and frustrated.
This is one MMO that is usually very accommodating to players with limited time such as those with full time jobs and families. Just right now it hit an unpredictable player surge a few months prior to an expansion launch. And not just any expansion. An expansion set to end the current story arc. It was a recipe for launch issues.
You can progress in this game pretty far in just 30 minutes to an hour. So the mom with a couple of kids can get in an hour before bed after she's put her kids to bed. Where one person may watch a late night show, she plays FFXIV.