I have to very much agree with MilitaryVet123 on the first post, unfortunately.

You can't impose someone else's way of playing, nor force yourself to improve. Everyone should play the way he or she likes it. If I notice or see that someone tells me I should use such and such skill or I should rather do such and such, I give a Sh**** on it, because it is very close to my heart to be "free". I also don't say that someone should use such and such skill or he should do such and such (with exceptions if you forget the tank stance or if the tank has low HP but the heal only AOE heals or spams his single/AOE attacks lol). I don't care if someone doesn't master their rotation or masters it 100%, you'll get through a content somehow.

In this sense: FFXIV is for me a place to chill, not to prove himself like one of the very strong here as a good player, you can very well claim with casual mindset and play style as a good player, you do not need toxic behavior or hardcore stuff!