Yes housing is frustrating thing, however it's not the game's main selling point and never was. It's not saying a house will be dropped in your lap when you want it, at the time you want it or that your crafters and gatherers will become level 80 instantly, or you'll be rich with mgp the moment you step into the Gold Saucer. All that you have to work for. It's like advertising a big sale on let's say toilet paper and you enter and find that it's sold out or limited. Are you going to write or go to the manager and say they are neglecting you? That that toilet paper should be on the shelf ready for you when you enter the store? No you wait until the thing becomes available with a raincheck.
I'm not saying housing is not messed up, but with all your posts in lodestone of "down with SE, crying neglect, when it comes to housing, before they've implemented a better system that isn't even released yet, I'm confused how is that neglect? I think they are trying to make housing fair under a system that is riddle with cheaters and those that want something for nothing, but I don't see you pointing finger that way. RMT is your enemy, not SE.