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    Hugh_Mercer's Avatar
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    Hugh Mercer
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    Leatherworker Lv 90
    I can't bring myself to rely on others for anything. It feels wrong as hell. I don't know man; but every time I do sum the courage to ask for help in game I get these over whelming positive comments and It seriously makes me choke. It's physically hurting me when homies display acts of kindness when I have nothing to give in return.

    This sounds like a personal problem I know; But I suppose years in WoW can force you into that habit of always needing to give to receive.
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    Ezekiel Book
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    Paladin Lv 72
    You don't have to discharge your obligations immediately. Just be determined to get good enough to help out other people later on.
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    Hugh Mercer
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    It's not that I'm helpless; My gameplay is mostly optimized. I've leveled as many classes as I could and I'm confident I have better reactions then most.

    It's that I have to extend my hand to others. It burdens me, so I must search for an alternative. As pointless as that may be.

    I apologize, shouldn't of even posted this problem as selfish as it is. At least I know what the palace of the dead is now.
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    King Canadane
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    Hyperion
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    Sage Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by Hugh_Mercer View Post
    I can't bring myself to rely on others for anything. It feels wrong as hell. I don't know man; but every time I do sum the courage to ask for help in game I get these over whelming positive comments and It seriously makes me choke. It's physically hurting me when homies display acts of kindness when I have nothing to give in return.

    This sounds like a personal problem I know; But I suppose years in WoW can force you into that habit of always needing to give to receive.

    The game is inherently a multiplayer experience, as much as the story wants to focus it's narrative on you.
    Just keep in mind that by using random players you are giving them something. You're filling a slot to get the dungeon or the fight over with. You're helping them do what they want.
    You don't have to do anything special.
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    http://king.canadane.com

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    Jenna Starsong
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    Goblin
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hugh_Mercer View Post
    It's physically hurting me when homies display acts of kindness when I have nothing to give in return.
    Maybe try thinking about it from a pay-it-forward perspective. As new player you may not have anything to offer now, but down the road you'll be able to help future newbies in the same way.
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