The trouble with telling tanks W2W pulls are a mandatory norm.

[Goji1639]

To be a bit blunt. Why am I supposed to care that someone hasn't slept well because their husband snores, they have a screaming child or they wanna relax and "take it easy"? None of these are mine or the remaining 2/6/22 players problem. Not to say I can't empathize but at the same time, we all signed up for get through whatever content. If real life is being such a burden you can't seem to play properly for whatever. Perhaps don't play a multi-player game where your performance impacts other players and their enjoyment.

I'm guessing they don't care about your reasons or preferences any more than you care about theirs. They'd prefer a lazy run for "reasons" and you'd prefer an ultra effort, fast as possible run for "reasons." Neither of you is right, wrong or out of line. Different playstyles and goals happen when different people are paired up randomly.

Too many people struggle to accept that, and just get worked up when they run into motivations that don't mirror their own. I know it's a cliche at this point; but if you don't like the random, disparate styles and goals that come with random groups then create your own groups and enforce your mindset.