Mods are not officially allowed by SE and grooming children is rightly against the law in most 1st World countries. So you already have that.
Although I don't presume to speak for everyone who plays FFXIV, I am very sure that generally speaking, 'the community' does not support these things.
You may get some individuals who do, but that will always happen in a large group of people.
If your kid looks like this, probably best to get them to a doctor pretty quickly...
We agree. No decent person would dispute that.
But decent people also don't blanket label those who play lalafells as paedophiles.
And most decent people with common sense know that the vast majority of role players, even ERPs don't want anything to do with children.
Again, blanket labelling huge numbers of people as weird or perverted who just want to enjoy fantasy role play with other consenting adults doesn't help.
A solution would be to create an adult only server (age verified) for role players but we know SE doesn't want to even publicly acknowledge this sort of thing goes on, lest it damages their brand.
So round and round we go, having the same circular arguments every time this sort of thread comes up.