Really? OK, I'll put it to you plainly.
@Authority figure: "If Billy gets a PlayStation, I want a new dirt bike!"
That's basically it, in a nutshell. People see others getting what they want - nay, merely asking for something they want - and it triggers what I'll call the "dirt bike" effect. This is the extreme low end of it, where people merely shoe-horn their desires into the discussion. The extreme other end of this effect is where people massacre each other for a discounted TV on black Friday.
It's all about watching someone else get attention or get what they want, and you yourself getting no attention or not getting what you want. Standing mute in that situation, or supporting the other person, isn't something everyone has the capability to do.



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