I am kinda shocked you are not getting into any parties. Not once have I had an issue in getting into one. And the times I was solo I just went as a dancer, run up pop standard step and it is usually enough for gold if it is dying that fast nobody can touch it more than once. I was farming the zones while waiting on Dalriada's to pop so I could farm plat coins to buy the hair I wanted. So it sort of just all got farmed for the most part without me paying much attention at all. Then I realised I need more Dalriada for the last step... *shudder* So I have an extra Hairstyle to sell now xD

There are the normal raids you can do to get the pieces instead. It's at least guaranteed for you and you don't need to rush around Zadnor like a headless chicken. All the other members of my FC did it that way, one had his relic the next morning after the patch. I was the one lunatic that farmed it in Zadnor itself. I would guess it will be much more time efficient for you to get them that way if you really are not having any luck.