Like at best, the request is a misplaced request for improvements to be made to existing races, at worst you're forcing people to enable unhealthy coping for your own body dysphoria, which, uh, if this is you please talk to someone about this? OR (BIG OR, not saying mental health issues means you're inherently a bad person) or it's an attempt at some seriously outdated and toxic "REAL MAN" conformity, which, ew.
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Oh and shorter males are cool, and not a trope currently represented in XIV, and if you don't want to play a race that cannot be taller than its own females, then you have literally every other race to play (Besides lalafell as I think they're on par) and if those aren't to your liking, suggest updates and options for them.
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Where yes, the tallest male cannot be taller than the tallest female, because, like i've said, it's
objectively rad.

BUT, in practice, most players will slam that height slider on their bunnygirl way down, so those who cannot bear to have a woman taller than them will be taller than most of their population if they crank their slider way up. (and will just have to deal with it or fantasia to another race / talk to a therapist if they can't deal)
(But like no really, if having ONE RACE in a videogame where the males cannot be taller than the tallest female makes you even the slightest bit uncomfortable, please talk to someone. Suggestion posts on game forums is not how you work out these issues.)