Where is your personal sacrifice threshold?

[Recon1o6]

Oh I'm going to love this thread

My method is this. Everyone starts at 2 revives. Depending on your actions, you can gain or lose them

You gain a revive if any of the following apply:
-you're new to the fight and it was the first or second time you saw the mechanic
-you're lagging noticably and doing your best
-you're at least trying to do the mechanic and/or you asked for help with a mechanic that you died to
-you sacrificed yourself to save someone (eg ate a second stack on thundergod's crush accessory that would have killed the healer)
-you are a rez mage or healer or summoner thats is likely to try and help save the raid
-you were literally unable to avoid dying when it wasn't your fault
-you got murdered by another party member and you haven't received a penalty
-a revive put you into an instant death BS (eg red girl's blocks)

You lose one if any of the following happens
-getting vuln stacks from the same mechanic repeatedly after the 3rd time (you get a chance to start doing it properly)
-refusing to listen to mechanics advice or follow the strategy the rest of the party is using (one chance to cooperate)
-deliberately killing other party members in certain circumstances
-deliberately not rolling for loot in alliance raids
-not bothering to play your job to a basic degree (I don't parse, but I don't need one to see a cryo mage or a tank that doesn't bother with mitigation)

You lose any right to be revived by me on the following
-demanding i stand there and only heal
-standing in aoes not bothering to dodge
-complaining about parses
-deliberately killing a party member in certain circumstances


edit: this applies when I'm a rdm and blu healer too. I haven't played healer since 5.2 but it applied then and it will apply to the healers in endwalker should SE actually make them fun to play again