Let me repeat it again.
It is not SE or FF14 community's responsibility to differentiate ERP from normal RP in a game not rated M.
SE has all the measurement installed to prevent themselves in trouble with any legal institution (Yes, sorry to inform you that NA is not the central of world in this game)
It is RP community's responsibility to purge ERP that dirtied their names by actively report any known ERP to the GM.
It is not FF14 community's task to differentiate that; we don't care, we are not interest and it is not our problem as rules are already in place.
Just stop wasting time to argue with us and just take action to purge ERP from your own RP community first