This is pretty much the reason I quit raiding, except I was the flaky person. I had a nice static for the first half of Omega but after getting a new job with unpredictable work hours it just wasn't worth it anymore. Having to constantly explain myself to strangers on the internet and worry about my schedule would have been draining. I'm not sure whether my former static had trouble replacing me. Hopefully not, but I also wouldn't feel guilty about leaving if they did. Real life comes first.