Should I change to viera or female miqo'te?

[Lanadra]

My friend had several today alone, and I've had a couple on my Miqo'te alt, as well as a few whilst on this au ra. It's not like they come in waves upon waves, but just enough to make me cringe inside; at least socialize first before pulling the waifu card, plz.

I think I've gotten a completely random 'I like you' on Moogle fairly recently, it just made me go 'ehhh... waaat?' on the inside. Thankfully they said no more and I could just ignore it.

As for OP's conundrum, I second what's been suggested, just make an alt for both (or perhaps give female Au Ra a try also.. gotta fight for my race after all ) and see what you like. Then when you've figured it all out for yourself, get the fantasia and make the switch.