I was issued a warning no info given. Thought our party finder issues were resolved?

[Theodric]

Second off, if you don't like 18+ RP thats fine. I actually agree that 18+ RP should never be in public, and should be stuck to designated venues, along with 18+ content being done privately.

If it's being actively advertised through the party finder, is that truly a case of it being done behind closed doors?

[Cerver]

If it's being actively advertised through the party finder, is that truly a case of it being done behind closed doors?

When the 18+ activity isn't actively advertised, has to be sought out, and also has reconfirmation that both people are 18+ before anything happens in a completely private area, yes, I would consider ignoring 3 or more 18+ barriers and doing the RP alone with 2 people 'private'

EDIT: Also, for the Xth time, Carmilla wasn't doing anything 18+, she was just managing her venue and saying hello to people.

[Zanzajin]

If it's being actively advertised through the party finder, is that truly a case of it being done behind closed doors?

If anything Miss Carmilla was doing was 18+ in her venue, I was well unaware of it while I was there. The only thing that might even be considered a little on edge was music being broadcast outside the game, and that is one of those things that has no bearing on the game itself. Even her advert said nothing about 18+. The fact that only there seems to be a sudden crusade against it clubs in general makes me wonder why the need for the fun police. I'm not saying hey let's have wood stock in limsa, or go out of our way to have naked people everywhere doing the deed in public. What I am saying is if someone is running an RP venue, that does not mean there is ERP going on. Some places are simply dance clubs. The faster you can get your head around it the easier the pill will be to swallow I'm afraid. There are many people who do a lot of things in this game, and you can't go around policing everyone. For the sake of all our sanity unless you see the acts taking on an MA+ Rating with your own eyes, and have documentation in a public setting, it shouldn't matter to anyone.