Why is it....

[Basch1990]

As someone who also likes being the MT of alliance raids, your "I rush to boss first to establish myself as MT" genuinely p***es me off.

My approach to MTing is asking "I'd like to tank the bosses, are the other two tanks ok with it? <se.10>", not trying to race to the boss to establish first aggro or claiming to be MT and arguing over it. You made it a contest by establishing your arbitrary rule that not many seem to agree with.

Key to your dilemma is correct communication.

And again. I say "I'll MT" and people dont respond. I say it at the beginning and nobody responds. And tbh, if that pisses you off dude, you really need to reevaluate your entire life. If somebody gets there first gtfoi. That is not a reason to get pissed off in any game or even irl. In a community where people seem to not give a crap about others, you should very well understand this. There is a reason Castrum Meridianum and Praetorium now have locked cutscenes. But in a place with no cutscenes and is easily finished quickly, it shouldn't matter anyways but that doesn't mean fighting for aggro wont kill a party.

[Reinhardt_Azureheim]

And again. I say "I'll MT" and people dont respond. I say it at the beginning and nobody responds.

A short "Ill MT" can quickly get drowned out for being short in text in chat and is a statement without asking for concrete approval. Again, make a request people can see in chat and if you dont like typing, macro it.

And tbh, if that pisses you off dude, you really need to reevaluate your entire life. If somebody gets there first gtfoi. That is not a reason to get pissed off in any game or even irl.

Ill be as angry and ranting as I personally god-damn wish mate, mind your own apparent problem first, after all you made this topic and people give their opinions on it, of which most seem to disagree with you. Maybe you're the odd one out here?

In a community where people seem to not give a crap about others, you should very well understand this.

Speak for yourself mate, not others. My perception of this community is nowhere near as grim as yours and I don't share your problems either.

There is a reason Castrum Meridianum and Praetorium now have locked cutscenes. But in a place with no cutscenes and is easily finished quickly, it shouldn't matter anyways but that doesn't mean fighting for aggro wont kill a party.

MSQ dungeons are their own design failure which would need a separate thread, but whatever.

If you are so heavily concerned about aggro dueling and the "dangers" behind it, be the first to drop it. Stop complaining about a problem while simultanously being the problem.