Healers who rescue pull tanks into mobs.

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Yep, these are the toxic players. If a tank isn't comfortable with large pulls, you should have the human decency to first communicate "hey I can take larger pulls" or just deal if they don't think they can. Everyone starts somewhere. Leave the run if the pull speed isn't to your liking but don't bully someone into compliance by abusing a skill that is meant to save people in clutch situations.

Only toxic ass people are arguing against the basic premise here of "communicate to your team members".

I communicate but simply voting to remove the element for the party. That aside, let me ask you this. At the core I think we can agree the the base function for each role is fairly standard right? Tanks, hold aggro, Dps, deal damage, and healers heal right? Now here is what I get confused by people, thinks like pull size, and pace do not inherently align with any one role per-se so why is it that tanks feel the need to claim those two elements as part of their role identity? To assume that they are perfect leader of the group due to their role does not seem like acceptable team behavior.

Though, sure if that makes me toxic, bully, or some kind of abuser because I do not bow down to the tank because they put their foot down because they come up with thousand and one reasons as to why large pulls cause them anxiety fair enough. End of the day if large pulls result in such a degree of anxiety that someone is unable to perform their basic function of using abilities to fulfill their role, they got properly have much larger issues they need to focus on.

For what it's worth, the forums are way more toxic than the in-game community, which in my experience is a lot nicer and more helpful.

The forums is just mostly a hive mind, full of keyboard warriors. People that post here thankfully don't represent the overall playerbase.

Well, here's the thing. If the tank is not pulling to your liking, you can ask them to pull more. If they are not comfortable with doing that, you have two options. Suck it up and deal with it, or leave the group. As a healer, leaving the group is no big deal. You have to eat a penalty, but after it wears off, you have near instant queues.

Life is not complicated.

You have another option and people should use it more vote to remove the player. In the end it is not like voting them hurts a tank or healer all that much they get no penalty, and the group "may" no longer have to deal with a difference in play style.