I main healer and am new. I have yet seen this personally, but not a lot of people post on the forums. And if someone makes a stink about wiping because you are new, ignore them. If you tell people you are new, the ball is in their court to make sure you are on the same page as them. They are just as much cause for the wipe as you are for not informing you. No issue asking for help. If they ignore you remember, they are part of the problem not the solution.