Mate. Where is it obvious that he /can’t/ play the job he loves? He asked if he should or not. To say “yes, he should” is giving a straight answer and the overwhelming response has been MCH is not in so bad of a place that it is not worth playing.
Using your dress analogy is more accurately presented as: “I really love this dress and want to wear it, it’s my favourite, but I heard it might be impractical. Should I wear this instead?” It turns out the dress is practical and she is worrying over nothing. What you are saying is that no instead of going for the dress she wants, this other dress makes more sense. And then those who say her dress is fine aren’t giving her a straight answer.
Absolutely, if she still decides that for whatever reason that she’s not going to wear that dress you can suggest others, but to tell her to wear a different one when it’s fine is not good advice.
But all in all the question was should he give up his favourite job for better performing ones? And there really is no reason why he can’t keep playing it if that’s what he loves.



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