'Triggered' is one of those words that, much like 'troll', 'bigot' and 'toxic' has lost much of its original meaning. The side asking for the feature to be added is being perfectly reasonable and civil. Those pointing fingers and hurling personal attacks is entirely stemming from some of those in opposition to the proposal. Which, in turn, suggests that the 'triggered' accusation is being applied rather haphazardly and deceptively.