Agreed. The difference here is how we approach content that we aren't interested in. If I don't like something, I don't make stupid posts demanding it's removal or an option to hide it from me. I simply shrug my shoulders and move on.
Oh it absolutely affects me, and it absolutely affects the health of the community in this game. Why? Because this game already has a HUGE problem with a watered down sense of community and a sense of anonymity between players in large swathes of content. I have a very big problem with anything that takes us even further down this spiral of encouraging a mindset where people have zero tolerance, empathy or consideration towards their fellow players because they are just unable to cope with anything that doesn't fit tightly within their idea of how things should be.
Removing gender locks are a very different issue. You'd be telling someone that they can't have more choice in what they can wear. I'm telling you that you need to be more accepting, tolerant and understanding of those around you even if their views or expressions don't align with your own. Big life lesson there.