One thing I agree with is the absurdity that most of the game information was not or is still not obtainable in the game itself. I haven't tried the new tutorial, but from the sound of it from Hagito it is still not effective.
http://extra-credits.net/episodes/tutorials-101/
Woa that video should seriously be passed to SE xD
Which cutscene are you referring to? I found most of them helpful to set the context the player is engaged in the moment. Whether if it was the class storyline cutscene, or the main storyline cutscene. Although some of them can be a bit long winded. If you don't care for the story, you could always hit ESC and click skip, to skip any cutscene.
The ones you start, in the first day of gameplay you get basically invaded by cinematics, there was a couple of times where I saw one walked 2-5 steps to some stairs and then another cinematic kicked in, after the first days I have rarely seen cinematics and i rather go with that, only if a cutscene is really needed to explain what is going on, it should pop up, but I am sure EVERYONE if not 90% of the players, skip the two cutscenes when you travel from a city to other through the windships. That's the kind which bothers me :P
I guess this is just from your personal inexperience? But, usually in MMORPGs you want to pick a server that suits your play style.
Such as if you were planning to just play alone, picking an empty or less populated server would be an ideal choice for you. This helps avoids competition. However, since you're new to the game, playing in a highly populated would be an ideal choice for you. This concept dates back to the first generation MMORPGs, so I guess most players just see it as second nature.
Live and learn.
Yeah I actually was going to but, since it's FF (a new game for me) I usually listen to what the game has to say, but for example on most quests or cutscenes its a GIANT wall of text which I most likely will end skipping...
I have over 13 years of playing online games, never found one that was this empty (except in Uldah, theres a big bunch of people in there, which I'm glad I found... I'd be rerolling if the server I picked was literally empty), one thing a new player doesn't know is what is the relation of the chocobos with the population itself, in some games for example, it tells you a server is "good / excelent" for you but it is actually crowded with people everywhere and where it says it is full, well, it is LITERALLY FULL :P
It's for every starting city assuming you were following the in game instructions from the first guildleve tutorial. Although, I can't remember if it directed you the NPC that helped you create linkshells.