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  1. #71
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    Ryaz's Avatar
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    Ryaz Darksbane
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    Brynhildr
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    Samurai Lv 100
    I think it's more those who sexually fetishize their female character too much that turns some people off. For example, my FC has a few guys who play females. Most of them, it's no big deal. They may dress them in lewd outfits, but it stops there for the most part (though even that has the connotations of reducing women to a sexual object).

    One player tends to RP their character a bit too much like a cat girl in heat and is often found over on Balmung ERPing. It can come off as a bit off putting at times as we've had irl female players ignore him or threaten to leave the FC because they feel harrassed by him when he gets into it too much. This can understandably lead to people being creeped out.

    Personally, I don't care what people play as long as they're respectful to others.
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  2. #72
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    TheMightyMollusk's Avatar
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    Iyami Galvayra
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    Cactuar
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    Red Mage Lv 100
    I wonder if anyone else noticed the typo in the thread title, because I only just saw it.

    This has no particular relevance, just making an observation.
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  3. #73
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    Victoria Castellus
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    Balmung
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    Gunbreaker Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by Skivvy View Post
    I know this isn\\'t the topic at hand, but it always makes me giggle when females correct people when they\\'ve used a masculine pronoun for them. OK I totally get it...if it\\'s that important to you, by all means please correct the person, but I can\\'t help but think they just want to have special recognition because OMG FEMALE ON THE INTERNET, lets swoon and give them things!

    There are definitely conversations where it may be relevant to the conversation going on, but it\\'s almost always first thought when I see that:X
    It's because I don't want people assuming I'm a dude, you absolute walnut.


    (Yeah, I bit at the bait. I know.)
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  4. #74
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    Quote Originally Posted by Arcian View Post
    It's because I don't want people assuming I'm a dude, you absolute walnut.


    (Yeah, I bit at the bait. I know.)
    Did you just assume they were a walnut? Seems like a double standard.

    Joking aside that is fair position.
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  5. #75
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    Skivvy's Avatar
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    Boo Box
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    Rafflesia
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    Sage Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by Arcian View Post
    It's because I don't want people assuming I'm a dude, you absolute walnut.


    (Yeah, I bit at the bait. I know.)
    I didn't realize expressing an opinion was bait, but OK.
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  6. #76
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    RyuSaarva's Avatar
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    Ryu Saarva
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    Phoenix
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    Bard Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by TheMightyMollusk View Post
    I wonder if anyone else noticed the typo in the thread title, because I only just saw it.

    This has no particular relevance, just making an observation.
    no, only noticed now, I must have changed the timeline because there was no typo in the past.
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  7. #77
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    SturmChurro's Avatar
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    Sturm Churro
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    Marilith
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    White Mage Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by Ryaz View Post
    One player tends to RP their character a bit too much like a cat girl in heat and is often found over on Balmung ERPing. It can come off as a bit off putting at times as we've had irl female players ignore him or threaten to leave the FC because they feel harrassed by him when he gets into it too much. This can understandably lead to people being creeped out.
    "At times"?

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  8. #78
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    Matthieu Desrosiers
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    Reaper Lv 90
    Stuff like that was what pushed me away from Balmung.

    It's unfortunately pretty common.
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  9. #79
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    Diaval Alucard
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    Cactuar
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    Red Mage Lv 100
    Daphne and Cassie don't spawn in Eureka when lots of Balmung players are there for a reason.
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  10. #80
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    Sturm Churro
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    Marilith
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    Quote Originally Posted by Theodric View Post
    Stuff like that was what pushed me away from Balmung.

    It's unfortunately pretty common.
    Doing it once would be a little weird, but doing it consistently. There's something else going on here...

    I have heard scary stories about that server. The most I ever experienced of "ERP" was when I was on Hyperion, and there was this advertisement up all the time for it.
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