Ongoing harassment in PvP FL

[xxvaynxx]

Even if this is bait or not. It sounds like some people don't like their waifu's getting teabagged by a hairy roe dude.

[KarmaViii]

"Wouldn't have to teabag"?!?!?! What kind of people feel they "HAVE" to commit such acts to demean, harm and traumatize other people, while hiding behind the anonymity of the internet?!

I am utterly disgusted, and hope not just the forum moderators ban you and anyone else here condoning such harassing and harmful behavior, but that anyone admitting to such behavior has their accounts tracked in-game as it's all but admit to doing such acts of severe harassment.

I got to take medication tonight after the incident, stuff I hadn't to touch for quite a while after therapy helping me to recover. "Wouldn't have to" ... what kind of people populate FFXIV by now?!

You know, 99.9% of people who do this doesnt do it to traumatize or hurt anyone, its one of the few ways we have left to "poke fun" at eachother. You are not the only rape-survivor, I too have gone through traumatizing stuff but in no way shape or form do I draw lines of similarity between that and teabagging in a game. I have even done so myself, but only to friends and people I know..

I think if you managed to not look at your digital character in a game as an extension of your own human body it could help you in several ways, this being one of them. Being traumatized by a silly act like this is not healthy and you are probly one of very few people who get this offended by it. I'd rather hope you avoid pvp than SE doing something to address this cus imo thats not fair all us others who doesnt take this as serious as you do.

[Palibun]

I get some people like pvp, but honestly if you're that hurt by people doing such things then just stay away.
I've never played pvp, but i've also never really met any bad people on the game; sure i've seen some annoying people, but never any harassment.

Just blacklist them, ignore, and move on imo. I get when you've faced sexual harassment it's hard, i have too, but in the end it's a video game and their words or actions really cant hurt you unless you let them.

[Awha]

Bait or not I am sure people in this world think like this, and it is scary.

[Canadane]

I love it when people make obscene emotes over my dead body in frontlines. Why? Because I'm still distracting this otherwise able bodied player from assisting his GC. Sometimes more than one!
I invite everyone over to my felled coat. Waste your time!

[Aniya_Estlihn]

Chiami, with all due respect, just go back to crafting and gathering, it what you're best at. Oh and maybe look into therapy—it'll help a lot in the long run because you will learn that not everyone is out to take advantage of, use or exploit you and that the general demeanor of people is actually to avoid others. Yes, there are sickos in the world who do aim to hurt, but this is a video game. You played a PvP mode and mistook something that is so exceptionally common in any game with PvP and tried to relate it to rape. I don't understand just how you could think that way, nor do I think you've done anything to actually take care of your repressed trauma, and I personally feel you should do so before involving yourself with an MMO any further.

This is no more harassment than when someone used /slap on Fahros and he threw a conniption fit over it, which was just as equally ridiculous as you making this thread.

[Shinklet]

The problem is that is how most people act nowadays. It is always a rape victim or a someone with a mental illness etc etc. At this point I just stop sympathizing with people it has gone so out of control. It is bad enough that beggars on the street aren't even real homeless people but scam artists too. My hatred for those that want to take the sympathy from others to score attention or money is deep.

Sir, this is a Mcdonalds.

[BloodRubyXII]

Sir, this is a Mcdonalds.

I don't care just make my whopper happen.

[hynaku]

Them doing stuff like that is was causes there teams to loose. They should be with there party and not out by themselves and sure not doing emotes and other stuff to dead players. If they caught them on my team doing that I would start kick vote.

[Leglibe]

OP, literally cry more, get over yourself