You can keep track of how many fates you have in each ShB area.

For the first rank you only need 1 gold rating.

Second rank you need 6.

Third you need 60.

So you need 67 in total.

It's very likely that some fates may have been failed (out of time) and still achieved gold rating for your efforts. These do NOT count.

Check out the Shared Fates log (I think it's in the Logs menu, could be wrong) to see how many you actually have.