Apartments are FF14's answer to housing for all. They're instanced, dirt cheap and to be honest, worth way more than they cost. So when you say that some players get furnishings that none of which they can use, that's just bulls**t because apartments are so accessible & easy to get.
Estates were not intended to be owned by everybody, they're a luxury item. I mean, think of how easy it is to lose them. We really shouldn't feel entitled to them. And on top of that, it's not like they're absolutely necessary in order to play through the game. Even if they were, there's nothing you can get from having your own estate that you can't get from being a part of an FC with a house or the MB, hell, if you have a friend they can even move you into their house. Please stop trying to make this housing thing seem like such a huge deal, it is not. There are much larger issues that need to be addressed, and thankfully SE realizes this too.
Also, if you're making a request for something, using an entitled/rude tone really isn't the best thing to do. I wouldn't be surprised if SE just skips right over this one. I certainly wouldn't be willing hear someone out who seems to be this unpleasant.