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  1. #11
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    Voltron_HD's Avatar
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    Character
    Kuro Moon
    World
    Faerie
    Main Class
    Black Mage Lv 80
    Quote Originally Posted by DarkMasamune View Post
    blunt invite
    Yes plz

    On a serious note: FC's for me need to tick a few things.
    Atleast medium sized and super active DAILY (at least 10 players on at peak midpatch lul)(Ive started, lead and joined super young FC's. Fun for a time, but 8/10 they become ghost towns)
    Extremely active discord/FC shat (I would much prefer too much fc chat than non at all)
    FC house to loiter at
    Thicker skinned mindset (people who wont take offense to the occasional curse sprinkled rant)(obviously no drama, conflict or calling out. More or less complaining that my but slider hasn't been developed yet)
    Group activities.

    If the above can be met, im in. The first FC I joined which wasn't my own or super tiny was amazing, but became a ghost town in midpatch lul and then ceased to exist all together (I miss you Kitchen Knights!!). My Current FC and my favorite thus far (Mogfia) is everything I mentioned and more. Ill never leave unless it goes dead (which I don't ever think will happen)
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    Kuro Moon
    BLM-AST-DRK ////Omni Crafter//

  2. #12
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    tinythinker's Avatar
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    Apr 2016
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    Gridania
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    Character
    Omi Senu
    World
    Faerie
    Main Class
    White Mage Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by Voltron_HD View Post
    Yes plz

    On a serious note: FC's for me need to tick a few things.
    Atleast medium sized and super active DAILY (at least 10 players on at peak midpatch lul)(Ive started, lead and joined super young FC's. Fun for a time, but 8/10 they become ghost towns)
    Extremely active discord/FC shat (I would much prefer too much fc chat than non at all)
    FC house to loiter at
    Thicker skinned mindset (people who wont take offense to the occasional curse sprinkled rant)(obviously no drama, conflict or calling out. More or less complaining that my but slider hasn't been developed yet)
    Group activities.

    If the above can be met, im in. The first FC I joined which wasn't my own or super tiny was amazing, but became a ghost town in midpatch lul and then ceased to exist all together (I miss you Kitchen Knights!!). My Current FC and my favorite thus far (Mogfia) is everything I mentioned and more. Ill never leave unless it goes dead (which I don't ever think will happen)
    Yeah, guilds (or whatever name they go by in different games) are tricky.


    I first tried this game in the spring of '16 for something new to try as a free trial, had no expectation of playing more than a day or two. Someone saw I was new and offered advice. Usually I just ignore than because in a lot of games people just want something from you, but since I wasn't planning to stay chatted with them and they were genuinely helpful and not pushy. When I bought the game a couple of days later I joined their FC. Not many on because it was a content lull, but when the others came back was going to learn newer/harder content so I just pugged my way through to a level 60 WHM and SCH. But that FC never recovered and eventually folded.

    Several months later I just popped into the game and literally ran into someone from the other FC who invited me to another FC. Also friendly, also small, and so when I was on kept pugging. By that point I was already a tourist, dropping in and out. That FC also folded, about a year and half after I joined. Good people in both, but just not enough critical mass/momentum to sustain.

    Small, medium, or large FCs can all be good but being friendly and active and a fit for your personality are key (to me). Also, that people more or less follow the dictum: "Do not be annoying, do not be easily annoyed." But that's really hard. Keeping an FC active even though some people need to take breaks or cut back from time to time, having officers that can balance the load, and getting members into things. It's a struggle juggle.

    I wonder how Fellowships will change the game.
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    Last edited by tinythinker; 10-12-2019 at 09:02 AM.

  3. #13
    Player
    Brightshadow's Avatar
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    Character
    Lumen Stargazer
    World
    Diabolos
    Main Class
    Red Mage Lv 80
    One without drama.
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  4. #14
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    Vulcann's Avatar
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    Character
    Matic Zanleer
    World
    Faerie
    Main Class
    Paladin Lv 80
    active

    friendly

    lack of drama

    lack of elitism

    willing to help each other

    making new members feel welcome
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  5. #15
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    Ursa_Vonfiebryd's Avatar
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    Oct 2016
    Location
    Ul'dah
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    727
    Character
    Ursa Nightrain
    World
    Mateus
    Main Class
    Bard Lv 100
    I look for friends. For people who are fun and like to run stuff. And the FC forms itself. (Mine did anyway).
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  6. #16
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    Novae's Avatar
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    Location
    Gridania
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    Character
    Novae Ombreloup
    World
    Faerie
    Main Class
    White Mage Lv 90
    Hello !
    Most of all, I'm looking for a small/med and very lively company, with regular and dedicated players who care about each others. An active chat is a must( I'm not found of voice chat cliques who tend to do their things and ignore the rest of the FC).

    Doing roulettes/ex primals/clear/maps is also great, but not a priority.
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  7. #17
    Player
    tinythinker's Avatar
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    Omi Senu
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    Faerie
    Main Class
    White Mage Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by Novae View Post
    Hello !
    Most of all, I'm looking for a small/med and very lively company, with regular and dedicated players who care about each others. An active chat is a must( I'm not found of voice chat cliques who tend to do their things and ignore the rest of the FC).

    Doing roulettes/ex primals/clear/maps is also great, but not a priority.
    There is a Faerie FC that advertises on this forum that uses only text chat for similar reasons
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  8. #18
    Player
    Novae's Avatar
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    Gridania
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    Character
    Novae Ombreloup
    World
    Faerie
    Main Class
    White Mage Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by tinythinker View Post
    There is a Faerie FC that advertises on this forum that uses only text chat for similar reasons
    That's really interesting. Which one is it? I can't seem to find it on the first page. Thank you !
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  9. #19
    Player
    tinythinker's Avatar
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    Omi Senu
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    Faerie
    Main Class
    White Mage Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by Novae View Post
    That's really interesting. Which one is it? I can't seem to find it on the first page. Thank you !
    Hmmm...

    Found it

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    Thanks for helping make the FFXIV community a fun and welcoming place. If you're not sure you have (and you very likely have), make it a point to be patient or helpful the next time you log in so that you can know you've made a difference.

    If you're on the Aether data center, congratulations! I might be your next exciting adventure healer in the Duty Finder. Please look forward to it.

  10. #20
    Player
    tinythinker's Avatar
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    Omi Senu
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    Faerie
    Main Class
    White Mage Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by Ursa_Vonfiebryd View Post
    I look for friends. For people who are fun and like to run stuff. And the FC forms itself. (Mine did anyway).
    Hmm, but how do you do that effectively? How do you get to know people well enough in an MMO if you aren't already spending regular time with them?

    Similar to the challenge of finding a good fit for an FC - "try before you buy" would be the idea I suppose
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    Thanks for helping make the FFXIV community a fun and welcoming place. If you're not sure you have (and you very likely have), make it a point to be patient or helpful the next time you log in so that you can know you've made a difference.

    If you're on the Aether data center, congratulations! I might be your next exciting adventure healer in the Duty Finder. Please look forward to it.

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