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https://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodes...3e7ccabefa9954
Steps Prior to Demolishing
Thirty days of inactivity
A notification indicating that the estate is being prepared for auto-demolition will appear in the Timers interface in the Duty tab of the Main Menu.
Thirty-five days of inactivity
An e-mail will be delivered to the registered e-mail addresses of all free company members, or the owner of a private estate, indicating the estate is being prepared for auto-demolition.
Forty-two days of inactivity
An e-mail will be delivered to the registered e-mail addresses of all free company members, or the owner of a private estate, indicating that the estate will be demolished automatically in three days.
Forty-five days of inactivity
The estate will be automatically demolished.
I checked my mail and i got 2 mails. I thought it was more but turns out it was for my FC but it's still 2 mails.
Fact remains, for FORTY-FIVE days you not once thought oh ok maybe time to enter the house. It's not on SE to remind you and yet they do. Information says you get a mail and most would make sure to check the junk folder.
You can wine all you want, it's your fault you lost the house, and if you don't even enter the house, I hope it now went to someone using it.
I stopped using my house, so i let it demolish so someone else can enjoy it.