Not feeling comfortable on my current data centre Chaos(EU). Thinking of transfering.

[JowyAtreides]

On the light side, you typically find there are similar levels of English speakers, alongside more German and Spanish speakers (as opposed to French or Russian)

Do you at least have a good closer community (FC/linkshells) that meet your requirements? People who make your experience better every day should outweigh the rare instances that you speak of in your post.

I spent 3 years on Cactuar (an NA world) and was part of a good and helpful community, however I personally feel it wouldn't be right for you with your self-proclaimed sensitivity. Not saying they are bad, but there are things they can say there without batting an eyelid which would be considered voodoo in the EU community.

I have no experience of Japanese servers.