Removal of names when unfriending someone

[moregano]

This has been an issue for a long time, I ended up transferring dc's to get away from a toxic fc leader. twice. but even though im listed as "character unknown - world unknown" on her fl after removing her from my own fl, she looked up my lodestone info and will always know when i change my name, world, dc's. everything. its scary that i don't have any privacy to my fl or to even have the option to hide my character's server on lodestone. i contemplated deleting this character and starting all over again just so i know they won't be able to find me, but that is two years in the making of MY hard work to be lost over one persons stalking! blacklisting does nothing, as well. blacklisted them and a couple of their friends and they still were able to track me down. PLEASE SE, at least fix the fl/blacklist issue!

[Canadane]

This has been an issue for a long time, I ended up transferring dc's to get away from a toxic fc leader. twice. but even though im listed as "character unknown - world unknown" on her fl after removing her from my own fl, she looked up my lodestone info and will always know when i change my name, world, dc's. everything. its scary that i don't have any privacy to my fl or to even have the option to hide my character's server on lodestone. i contemplated deleting this character and starting all over again just so i know they won't be able to find me, but that is two years in the making of MY hard work to be lost over one persons stalking! blacklisting does nothing, as well. blacklisted them and a couple of their friends and they still were able to track me down. PLEASE SE, at least fix the fl/blacklist issue!

Sounds like you may just want to report them for harassment.
There’s alternative methods too but you may not like ‘em.