I strongly feel that people need to take a step back and think over what the word disappointed means. A lot of people that are currently disappointed are getting attacked for being toxic because they are being wrapped up with the group of people that are making threats and demands (the real toxicity).
People should be able to feel disappointed. It's a natural human emotion. Expressing that they really wish SE did not go the job path they did that left an entire branch of players in a lull while others get shiny new toys is perfectly respectable. I hold nothing against them and I hope they at least wait to see the revamped mechanics live letter in may since they already said healing is getting a major overhaul.
Honestly when it comes to the debacle of the male viera, I can't speak for your feelings cause that is outside of my world. However I'm not going to hold it against you if you feel upset about it. I was more personally upset about no female hrothgar (currently fem roe and loving it), but its fair to be honest that if they have a female only race they need to balance with a male only race. Will it come out sometime down the road? Who knows. Is it going to kill the game for me? No, I'll just be a little sad about it that is all.
Flip side, people who make threats and demands cause of something they feel did not go there way deserve to get bashed. Especially when the game that has figuratively bent over backwards to get people what they asked for (that is within their time constraint/abilities). Remember when people really wanted some kind of marriage system that did not have gender constraints behind it? That wasn't something that was on the table, but they made it happened cause you the community wanted it. Tell me another game that would do that for you. Did you get it by threatening to take your money elsewhere, or call the staff homophobes and sexists cause its 2019? No, you got it via constructive criticism and feedback.
Yes I understand that the game has flaws, and I am not trying to white knight it. I just want people to be decent human beings cause they're right, it's 2019 and it's about damn time that some of those people shape up.